One doesn’t have to look too far to find a news story about a “crazy” dad who screamed at the umpire or threw a tantrum on the sideline. The more powerful sports stories, however, are those that aren’t in the newspapers: the father who plays catch with his son every night until it’s too dark to see the ball, or who encourages his daughter to keep skating even though she has fallen down more than she has stood up, or who puts an arm around his child after losing the big game.
These lessons in hard work, patience, perspective and love may not be front-page news, but you can celebrate them this Father’s Day. So, if your dad understands what it means to build healthy character in his kids, give him a gift that shows how much you appreciate his healthy attitude – one that says, “We want you to enjoy a long, healthy life!”
Here are a few ideas:
- Set up a basketball hoop in the driveway, and then challenge your dad to a game of one-on-one. If you’re feeling really generous, let him win.
- Turn off the TV. The typical dad may want to relax on Father’s Day but that doesn’t mean he has to sit on the couch and watch television. Turn off the TV and take him somewhere to do something active. For example, if he likes watching golf, go with him to the driving range. If he enjoys baseball, take a trip to the batting cages. Maybe the activity is as simple as just going for a walk together.
- Cook a healthy meal. For some families, figuring out what dad would like for dinner is a tough decision. This year, make sure the meal is healthy and made from ingredients that you know he likes. You can find lots of recipes online, but don’t stop there – buy him a healthy-cooking cookbook to tempt him to eat healthier all year long.
If none of these gifts are quite right for your dad, find one that is, and make sure to give him a big hug as you give him his gift. Studies show that hugs can reduce stress, reduce heart rate, improve moods and lower blood pressure.